Monday, June 25, 2012

Drawing The Fault Line


He who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats or harps on a matter separates even close friends.

--Proverbs 17:9 (AMP)


Forgiving God,


I don’t want to be a fault finder, but rather, I want to be a fault forgiver—keeping guard over my relationships with others.

I know that I am a man of many faults, prone to offend and in need of the  love and forgiveness of others.  And so, out of a grateful heart for the love that has been so liberally poured out on me by You, my God, I want to cover the faults of others with forgiveness for any offense that they committed against me.

Help me never to forget how love grows and prospers when I choose to forgive another person’s faults, so that I am always ready to disregard those things which, if left to grow, would breed bitterness and resentment in me towards another.

Help me never to escalate an argument by bringing up all the mistakes that the other person has ever made—thinking that somehow I will justify my position by cruelly attacking the person.  But rather, remind me that love would keep its mouth shut—even as difficult as that may be for me to do—and so preserve the relationship.

I know that I may never be able to perfectly forgive and forget every fault or offense, but keep me on track to continue to become more like Your Son, Jesus, letting love be my guide in all of my interactions with others.

I don’t want to be a fault finder, but rather, I want to be a fault forgiver—keeping guard over my relationships with others.

In the name of Jesus, Amen.

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